There is no doubt that having two children changes the dynamic in the family. We have to "spread the love" between both of them and be aware of each of their affectionate needs. Because there is such a big difference in their ages, they both have completely different needs. While it seems we pay much more attention to Shep, it's simply because we have to meet so many of his needs whereas Ella is much more independant and can do things on her own... such as making her own drink, brushing her own teeth, taking a shower, etc. But to her little mind, she sees us with Shep all the time and she can get quite jealous. So, we make sure that we spend extra time with her when he isn't around... and being that his bed time is 7:00, this works out perfectly for us. We usually put him down and then have an hour or so with her, put her down and then it's quiet time for us. All of this is on a perfect day, of course... it usually happens on Fridays! So, this past Saturday night, we decided to have Oreo milkshakes and game night after T.O. went down. The cast of characters:
Pour 1 cup of milk into blender.
Next,gently drop ice cream in blender...
Blend, pour and top with oreos and enjoy!
Eli’s First Single is Out!
3 days ago
Yum!! It's so encouraging (for when we have more than one kid) to hear that you guys make such an effort to spend that extra time with Ella! Also, what does T.O. stand for? The other? Haha. That's all I came up with. :-)
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